Why we must be careful....

Do you respect your escort? Do you barter for a lesser rate? Do you expect your escort to perfrom high risk services? Do you promise to review or recommend your escort if she does ABC services, or if she'll give you a discount? Do you promise to be her regular for a lower rate, or for riskier services? If you answer yes to any of these questions you don't respect your escort, nor yourself....There is a rise in std's/sti's and there are reasons for that. Many escorts are working due to dire financial needs, the pressure of having to perform risky services may not be something they can refuse. Why encourage that, why would you want to take advantage of someone who is vulnerable? Lets face it, our rates are a kind of hazzard pay. Since we (females) are the ones taking most of the sexual risk. So, Imo, an escorts rates *can be* reflective to just how much respect and care the escort has for herself. A higher rate tells me the escort is telling her clients that she expects you to also respect her and her boundaries and she may also be charging more to limit the amount of clients/risk she is willing to take. A lower priced escort, who performs risky services, tells me that she is needing more clients,( and that need may be her choice, or it may not be) and she also *may be* willing to take more risks with her health, which also puts your health at greater risk.

Women are more at risk at contracting std's/sti's. Our vaginas have a larger surface that is more vulnerable than the penis, which can be completely covered, giving it more protection. The vagina has a delcate ph balance. Any insertion of objects can introduce bacteria which will then mess up that ph, resulting in at the least, yeast infections, and often more serious problems. Due to the fact that the vagina is an internal organ, it can be harder for women to notice symptoms in their vagina. Men are more likely to notice sores and rashes on their penis because it is external. A sexual exchange between a man and a woman will never be an equal one. Studies have established that women have a higher biological risk for contracting STIs and HIV than men, with a higher probability of transmission from men to women than vice versa.  


1 A woman’s anatomy can place her at a unique risk for
STD infection, compared to a man.
• The lining of the vagina is thinner and more delicate than
the skin on a penis, so it’s easier for bacteria and viruses
to penetrate
• The vagina is a good environment (moist) for bacteria
to grow
2 Women are less likely to have symptoms of common
STDs — such as chlamydia and gonorrhea — compared
to men.
• If symptoms do occur, they can go away even though the
infection may remain
3 Women are more likely to confuse symptoms of an STD
for something else.
• Women often have normal discharge or think that
burning/itching is related to a yeast infection
• M en usually notice symptoms like discharge because it is
4 Women may not see symptoms as easily as men.
• Genital ulcers (like from herpes or syphilis) can occur in
the vagina and may not be easily visible, while men may
be more likely to notice sores on their penis
5STDs can lead to serious health complications and
affect a woman’s future reproductive plans.
• Untreated STDs can lead to pelvic inflammatory disease,
which can result in infertility and ectopic pregnancy
• C hlamydia (one of the most common STDs) results in few
complications in men
Women who are pregnant can pass STDs to their babies.
• Genital herpes, syphilis and HIV can be passed to babies
during pregnancy and at delivery
• The harmful effects of STDs in babies may include
stillbirth (a baby that is born dead), low birth weight (less
than five pounds), brain damage, blindness and deafness

7 Human papillomavirus (HPV) is the most common
sexually transmitted infection in women, and is the main
cause of cervical cancer.
• While HPV is also very common in men, most do not
develop any serious health problems

We all deserve respect and no one should want to take advantage of another. Think when you choose your escort. Take everything into account. As escorts, think and ask questions of those who seek you out. Self care is important and it is better to be safe and enjoy your fun without adding extra risk for all those involved.