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Why reviews are silly....

09 Oct, 2024

Bill thinks I'm wonderful, Joe thinks I'm okay, and Tim, thinks I'm not for him......(The names and opinions used are fictitious) So what does that make me....Wonderful, okay, or not for Tim, or just confusing, lol..... 

Lets face it, if you accept being reviewed as an escort, then you have to accept the good and bad reviews.They go hand in hand. Believe one, don't you then have to believe the other, and if that is the case what review determines the escorts worth? Thew good or the bad reviews? I hate using that word, worth, yet that is exactly what the review system is telling people. That this escort is worth seeing, or is not worth seeing. Which I find is very condescending and egotiscal. Egotistical, because for any client to think he has the power to change/increase or descrease an escorts worth by stating his evaluation of the time he spent is, imo, egotistical and self indulgent.I believe most escorts who offer an authentic experience will receive a mix of good/bad and mediocre reviews. Those who never receive any negative comments, I'd question. Since reviews are subjective, it wouldn't make sense for an escort to only recieve positive reviews, unless they were conspired or solicited. Because even the most beautiful, flawless, and most pleasent escort, won't or can't please every client, and it is foolish to believe they could. Personalities aren't always what they present them as when screening, people can act out inappropriately when in person, services may change because of hygiene issues or other factors, etc, etc, and we all can have a bad day. So how would you determine an escorts worth, if reviews are mixed....you can't, nor should you. As your experience with them may be exceptional. My point is in this type of service industry, if the intimacy shared is authentic, relying on the experiences of other clients to dertermine yours is akin to believing that you will give and reciprocate the very same energy/touch/taste/mood/sexual abilities, as another person, which is impossible. Unless you've been cloned, lol.

 Other reasons to questions reviews.....Some clients will write negativity just to give an escort bad publicity, and some will write positivity just to give them more exposure, deserved or not.

 We all should want to help one another stay safe while seeking companionship,so those who write a review to inform others of this I understand and support, but unfortunately many also want some of their peers to fail, and will use whatever methods, and systems to accomplish that, reviews being one of them. So as far as I'm concerned, if you read only glowing reviews of anyone, question that. If you read only negativity, question that. And question everything in between. Reviews are just opinions, for the most part, and as we all know, opinions vary, are subjective, they can be used for nefarious reasons, and like assholes, everyone has one, lol. To those who think you can believe/trust those written by what is considered, a long time review board member, or a "valued" member, remember they too have motives, favorites, and opinions. So when seeking a companion, choose wisely, and read wisely. My best advice for finding a compatible companion is to speak to them, ask pertinent, polite, non sexually graphic questions.Those of us who wish to keep our clients safe, will not answer questions that point to you, the client, paying for sex, as doing so is illegal. You are purchasing our time. I'd recommend steering clear of any escort who freely discusses selling sex services.So always becareful, aware, and remember, only you can decide who is best for you...Not Bill, Joe or Tim.....and have fun!!