I get a fair share of new clients, and with most, things go well, even great. But sometimes things just go awry......
In order for any date to be a good or great one there has to be some sort of chemistry. That can come from having things in common, to being attracted to a persons mannerisms, or having physical attraction, etc......Even with that, how a client reacts when intimacy occurs, can change that chemistry very quickly. If a man treats me like his personal blow up doll, by instructing me to move this way, do this position, now that position, then turn this way, then another way, then do this, touch that, do this, that, and the other thing, and so on, I'm not going to react positively......If you keep bringing up how the last person you had sex with liked it that way, so you assume I would too, then I'm not going to react postively. Sex should happen naturally, it needs no script, and it differs from person to person. Following a script, or needing to spew out instructions every second, isn't comfortable, nor appealing. It's great to know what you like and dislike, but there are ways to communicate that without sounding demanding or like an instructor, lol. If you are one who requires such sexual specificity, you should mention that before booking. You should also know that women are all different. What turns one on, won't another, and so on......When you visit an escort for the first time, you should have expectations of having some fun and relaxation, that you'll be safe, and provided with what was promised. Having unrealistic expectations, is unrealistic! You should also know we aren't sex super stars with incredible sexual secrets we pull out for every new client. We're sensual beings who react to each person's energy and their treatment of us. That can be said for even the most seasoned escorts, as having experience doesn't mean we can create magic, or raise the dead. If the date doesn't turn out as you expected, that too should be expected. Anytime you meet someone new you should have expectations that you may not click, and what you had hoped for may not occur. When this happens you move on, as long as you weren't purposely deceived, or taken advantage of. If it was simply about not clicking, or not having chemistry, you don't run to a review board whining and complaining, you move on and find someone more compatible and learn from your experience. As the client, your part in creating a wonderful experience is as vital and required, as is mine, or the escort you choose.......Often times unsucessful dates are caused by a clients poor hygiene, untruths, demands, or other things clients do. Like being a smoker and booking with an escort who specifies no smokers!! if your escort says they don't want to be with a smoker, don't book with that person if you smoke. I clearly state on my website, that I prefer non-smokers. Smokers, even freshly showered smokers, will smell like smoke, and the smell of cigarette smoke is a huge turn off for me......please respect that. All in all contacting an escort is a privilege not a right. That escort has a right to refuse anyone for any reason, and that refusal doesn't earn you the right to verbally abuse them for refusing you. If you contact the escort in a polite professional manner, show up on time, are hygienic and pay the required fees, and are as you presented yourself to be, then your date should go well. Bearing in mind, visiting someone to have some companionship is a luxury, not a right, and as long as you seek out someone professional, and have reasonable expectations, problems shouldn't arise. Do your part and we'll do ours:)