What is experiencing an escort all about...Well that is for you to determine. Each and every time a person visits an escort they will have expectations as to what they hope will happen, visions of what they'll hope to see, and then an opinion of what it was......And from person to person, those things will always be different. The things that can make a date with an escort/sex worker exceptional are compatibility and chemistry. Even when you just want to "get off", and don't care who you see, having chemistry with the person, having something in common, makes that "getting off" so much hotter.......
In this industry there are many different types of sex workers, and thankfully, clients too, who seek varied types of experiences. We should celebrate them all, pertaining that consent is always there.
Some clients will only seek out someone with which they have a sexual attraction. They will over look other things, as long as they feel the escorts physical looks appeal to their esthetic. Other clients seek a more intimate experience. They seek an escort that they will have some chemistry with, because they want companionship as well as sexual gratification. An intimate experience involves an attraction to a person beyond their physicality. Then you have clients who seek an escort who offers fetishes, and other kink services to which trust and training are key points when choosing the person to hire. Trust, because those types of sessions may include bondage, or restraints of some sort. Hence knowing a person's training should be key when seeking out this type of sex worker/escort.
In the end, only you know what you are seeking. Be honest with yourself about that. Do your research. When reaching out to an escort make sure that they offer the type of date you are seeking..... Read an escorts media, watch their video's (if they have those), ads, then talk to them. That information should tell you all you need to determine whether you'll want to meet them for the type of date you are seeking. When you do, be realistic and respectful. A great date with an escort has as much to do with you as it does the escorts talents, looks, and their experience. What many clients seem to forget is that we are humans, lol, not mythical beings with magical talents. Your energy, hygiene, how you treat us, will most definitely affect the outcome.....When the outcome is great know too that if there is a next time, because human connection is so nuanced, it may be even better, or could even end up being somewhat disappointing. Again, be realistic and understanding to the complexities of human connection, and these types of dates.....Just because an escort is hot, intelligent, sexy....doesn't mean they'll blow your mind, or your penis...... properly, lol...Connections work sometimes, sometimes they don't. Be mature enough to know this and never lay blame.... When they don't work, move on and try again. Life is short. Enjoy what's good and move on from the rest......