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The deposit revolution....

10 Aug, 2025

Well calling it a revolution is a bit much, lol, but it is true that more and more escorts are now being steadfast about collecting deposits in order to secure a booking. Unfortunately it is the only way to guarantee that if a client doesn't show up, or if he cancels, our time isn't wasted, since time is the commodity we are selling. Deposits have saved me a few times this year. I now prefer them over expecting a gentleman to provide his id along with a selfie. With AI and other ways of counterfeiting pictures and personal identifications, I feel deposits are the safest bet for protecting me from having my time wasted. There have been far to many guys who've been willing to send their id and picture and then cancel last minute, all while refusing to compensate me. So I've then lost that time slot, and have no recourse with the time waster other than to store their id/pics and block their number.....At least with a deposit, I'm not out any money.....

Of course if you read the hobby boards you'll read a lot of comments in which members will stress to never send a deposit. What they leave out, is escorts like myself, those of us who are considered professional, are more than safe to send deposits to....Any escort who you can verify through their social media, a personal website, and ads on multiple platforms, especially an ad site as reputable as Tryst.link, should be considered safe to send a deposit to. I also suggest talking to the escort you choose. Most of us can glean from a short conversation and by asking pertinent questions, whether a person will be safe to see and safe to send a deposit to. Of course there will always be exceptions to the rule, and there will also always be those high volume escorts who will advertise to not needing deposits, who can service those men who will never send deposits..... Dishonest people exist in every market/industry, and high volume escorts don't care if a client stands them up as they have others lined up to cover their lost time. Most professional escorts that I know of don't book clients back to back, and are more careful with their selection of clients. Quality over quantity. There is someone for everyone in this industry. I just wish those who insist on promoting that anyone who requests deposits is a scammer, would get their facts straight and instead, start promoting truths......Of course I understand the difficulties deposits pose for some gentlemen who have shared bank accounts or who fear being found out because of a paper trail, although the latter is nothing, imo, to worry about. Most of us can provide a discreet email and banks aren't going to care who you are sending the transfer to as long as you don't identify the activity it's intended for within the transfer message or password....I will say I have never heard of any of my clients ever having any issues, and I'd recommend to anyone wanting to participate in visiting escorts to set up some sort of private account for their playtimes. Because I'm sure as time goes on even those who don't expect deposits now, eventually will. There is just to many out there trying to mess with our booking schedules, and as I've said, time is money....And to answer why some people purposely book an escort with the intention of wasting their time, I can't! It's beyond my understanding.......So to end, please be understanding towards those of us who require deposits, and if you can't or won't deposit, then please don't contact those of us who require them. Thank you!!