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18 Apr, 2024

I post lots of pictures, on my website and socials (instagram/twitter). When I do I do my best to post those pictures that show me in my best light. I don't feel the need to post pictures that show every pore, wrinkle, or anything else that may be seen as a flaw. I also believe that any escorts pictures are meant to be representative of their appearances, not biographies of every physical detail the person has. Since we are selling a fantasy, and our time, not rights to our faces/bodies. If a client believes he has the right to see "everything", perhaps instead of buying an escorts time, he should instead, consider marriage, lol.

 I'm not suggesting that we should misrepresent ourselves, nor should we post pictures that are so far off that they don't look like us. I'm meaning that since photos remain online for what may be forever, and because they can been seen by all, we need to be careful and that we require discretion with our advertising. Since many of us aren't face out (showing our faces in our pictures), and we also don't want to be recognizable by friends, family, coworkers, ect. So along with wanting to look our best, to be seen in the best light, we also need to be somewhat vague with what we post. Which makes advertising/posting pictures and information difficult. We want to show ourselves honestly, without showing "ourselves", if that makes sense. So to those within the sex work community who think it justified to critque some for how they advertise, how they post pictures, or why or how they do as they do, perhaps think before you speak. This business is difficult for many, why make it harder. We need more understanding, more kindness within this community, not more hate and criticism. Thanks....