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Lets break it all down....

12 Jun, 2024

Here is a few things I want to set straight....

If I mention someone in my blog, it's becsuse they've either done something nice for me, to me or for someone  else, or a charity......OR, they've fucked with me, lol. By that I mean they've spread untruths, tried to bring harm upon me, or have done other nefarious or malicious acts directed towards me. or someone else. So if you find yourself mentioned here, consider the privilege, earned, lol.

Since so many make assumptions as to why I destest review boards, I want to make it clear.....

Short version..... they've made it harder for escorts to earn money and they've given the clients far to much control over how we run our businesses. They provide a forum for clients/hobbyists ( I hate that term Hobbyists) to post their crap and then spread it to those who don't know any better....."Crap" meaning disinformation, myths, how we should screen, what info they (clients) should give to escorts when screening, what is a fair rate, etc, etc...... It is a shame that there are still some escorts who don't recognize this, or even care.....But I get it ....there are some escorts who are flourishing *because of* the boards and the reviews they receive, and those escorts can't see past their own success, and potentially, even if they could, would still not care about the harm the boards do in general. So that's it, that is the short version, for the longer one, we'd have to have a conversation, lol.

Why I dislike the term hobbyist......because meeting and having sex with women shouldn't be considered a hobby. Why? because we're not objects to be had, nor are we conquests. We're human beings who provide a service. Nor is it normal, to spend most of your time posting drivel on escort review boards, which is what "Hobbyists" do.. Can seeking sex be considered fun, something to look forward to, etc, of course. Is it healthy, of course, it could even be for some, considered an integral part of self care. But if that is your pass time, what you consider your hobby, in my mind, you have issues, and those need to be addressed. Believe me, the guys who go around banging every woman they deem hot, and then go bragging about their conquests on review boards, aren't guys who respect, or even like women. They are lacking something......and that something isn't just sex.... So if you call yourself a hobbyist......ewww.