Imagine a client telling an escort he's enjoyed spending time with in the past, that he won't see her again, if she continues interacting with another escort. This other escort, btw, is safe, professional, and has no knowledge or memory of that client...I wish I could say I was surprised by this petty childishness, but this type of behavior has been seen, or heard of, ever since I became an independent escort.The immaturity and vileness of some within this industry just never ceases, and it comes from both clients and escorts.....
Every one of us has the right to interact with whomever we choose. But NO ONE has the right to tell another who they can interact with! Then to use what you think is your power, by revoking your patronage, your $$$, to inflict negativity onto another, is a new level of low. I say this also to those escorts who'll tell their clients not to see another escort, simply because they've had personal issues with them, is also another level of low. Dislike whom you choose, but for fucks sake, be professional and act mature! This isn't elementary school!
There are a few people I dislike in this industry, some are escorts and some are clients. I'm also professional enough that if a client were to ask me about one of the escorts I disliked, because he wanted to see them. I'd tell him to contact them and that it was for him to decide if they'd get along. I'd keep my personal opinions to myself. If a friend were to ask my opinion of any of them, I'd tell them....My dislike of anyone is for me to deal with and unless it was because of safety issues, telling clients about it, I see as unnecessary, unprofessional and petty. That is how we all should treat our peers and clients, imo. Business is business and personal affairs should be separated from it. I won't and don't expect another person to dislike someone simply because I do. And I'll trust that people of good character, will be able to discern the character of another and decide for themselves whether interactions should continue or be severed.
I do believe that money is causation of most of these immature and negative behaviors, that, and some insecure personalities...... I believe noteriety fuels many, also. So many escorts will do whatever it takes to be the "stand out", "the escort of the moment". And so many escorts will do whatever it takes, to make the amounts of monies they need to lead their lifestyles. Including being malicious/spiteful to those peers who don't fall into their social or money making circles......So many clients will do whatever it takes to become favored by specific escorts, or to become the "man of the moment" on those review boards......And they all justify all they do....It's sad really. Maybe one day things will change. I'll continue to hope......