Isn't it curious when men who fuck women behind the backs of their partners/spouses, and who congragate on sex sites/escort review boards to discuss and rate those women, will start a thread shaming a woman because she has switched careers from doing something they consider "respectable", to doing some form of adult entertainment. Some how these men seem to think that going into adult entertainment, or sex work, is a step down from any other career. They imply that we (those of us who make those choices) should be ashamed, embarrassed, or that we've some how failed at life. If we have choosen sex work, or adult entertainment as a career, lol!! Yet there they are, on a review board, bragging about their conquests, and giving tips on how to sneak around without getting caught...lol. Apparently in their minds, it's only congratulatory when "they" screw around, or partake in adult entertainment, I say with a big eye roll.....  

 I find it curious how some will judge the actions of another, all while doing something untoward themselves.... The woman who was being criticized, rated, and judged in the thread that promprted me to write this blog, is an actress who was once on a very popular series, and who is now apparently performing on onlyfans.Some of these "guys" seem to find that repugnant. I see her choice of being on onlyfans as just another acting role. I don't feel her choice deserves the judgement, assumptions, or condescention these yahoo's are giving it!! Apparently they haven't heard that expression, "Those who live in glass houses, shouldn't throw stones"..... So what if any woman decides to switch careers...it's not your business, nor mine, to criticize. We all make choices for various reasons. To make assumptions as to why and judgements towards, especially when playing in the same field, only makes those judging and critquing sound like hypocrites, and pathetic ones at that. How can any man judge a woman for performing a job they seek out. How can a man who regularly seeks out women to fuck outside of his own relationship, then turn and criticize the women willing to fuck him? It's all so pathetic, it's funny, and it's all so telling, it's pathetic!

I'm going to recommend these fools do some introspection, before they once again judge, rate, or berate another woman. When they complete that introspection, if they've the fortitude to do so, perhaps then they'll understand just how foolish and hypocritical they sound....But I won't hold my breathe. Because those who flock to those sites, those who create those types of threads, tend to have misogynistic and narcissistic personalities. They will never be able to see their own hypocristy. They will never understand their ego, nor will they be able to admit to having an unhealthy perspective.

The saddest truth about sex work, is that many who seek us out, despise us. They have little to no respect for us, or what it takes to be in this industry. And most of that type seem to gravitate to, and congregate on those review boards.