So the thread on the local hobby board, I had an issue with in a previous blog https://www.cristymature.net/blog/dear-adam38/  has had a continuation. It has angered me so much, I've spoken to a couple of my clients who still hold a membership on that board. Hopefully they will say something or at least message the mods to have some action taken. As they agreed that what has been written is in poor taste and shouldn't be allowed. I don't understand why that sites moderators are allowing idiots to disparage a reputable escort member. What annoys me further, is no other escorts are stepping up in her defence. The most recent "petty Paul" this "SamIsDTF" who btw, has posts in which he names the area and house number where some escorts are working, he also brags about "subbing"(agreeing to have sex with escorts and allowing that to be filmed and used for their only fans content) for some local girls, "for free". Isn't he generous...note my sarcasm...  Because, by his words, he is such a stud that he wouldn't pay to fuck older women because he's in his 30's and can go to any bar and get them for free. So he'll only pay for younger 20 somethings....aren't those 20 somethings lucky...again, note my heavy sarcasm!! lol!! The crap some of these goofs write makes me want to wash my eyes out with rubbing alcohol.....The amount of time some of these guys put into posting their drivel on that board, and their antics, makes one wonder many things, namely, do they actually have a life, lol. Anyhow, this "SamIsDTF" guy took it upon himself to research the woman in the initial thread, and why? It wasn't because he wanted to visit with her, that is made clear, but as he claims, he started his "investigations"  because he wants to keep "everyone" safe!! Yeah right Sam! Is naming an escorts location, "keeping everyone safe"...is asking strangers to send you gossip, you have no way of validating, "keeping everyone safe"...and what a prince your are, what an ego you must have, to deem yourself lyla's chief investigator..... But seriously, I, like Sonia, believe there is another motive here, and a motive which isn't sincere and one that should be questioned! The problem with goofs like Sam is that they take a snipit of gossip, patch it together with other stupidity and nonsense, then conclude that they've discovered something nefarious. When in fact they've proven nothing, but that they enjoy wasting their time trying to prove someone they have some imaginary and convoluted issue with, isn't who they claim to be. 

I hope someone grows a back bone on that site and stands up to these petty Pauls. If it were I they were trying to publicly, even privately defame, I'd be retaining a lawyer, and at the very least be suing them for defamation. Another comment, that I've quoted below, from SamIsDTF, is both comical and disturbing. It's comical because Sam seems to feel safe and secure hiding behind his pseudonym, all while warning others of the risk of giving out personal info to a "stranger" on the internet. Does Sam not realize a pseudonym isn't hiding him, lol....The disturbing part is him asking others to send him info about an escort he has no desire to meet, why? Perhaps someone should start investigating Sam....Because don't we all know that a pseudonym on a review board can be tracked to who is behind that pseudonym....I'm sick of those who get on review boards acting like they have the right, or authority to try and ruin the reputation of someone who's just trying to make a living, or just wanting some fun. Get a fucking life! Redirect your energy to something productive. Go volunteer somewhere, do something other than being an asshole!!

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I am genuinely curious to hear from someone who has first hand (in person) experience with her. Please PM me. I promise not to reveal any details publicly so as to “out” you as the source.

I hope everyone stays happy and healthy. And remember folks, giving out your PII details to a stranger on the internet is always a risk. Even if they are in a good space now and genuinely believe they would never share that  information publicly, that might not always be the case. And once it’s out there, it’s out there.

And to answer why I discuss and take issue with these people, threads, discussions....because I've been through just about everything a person can go through in this industry. I've been beaten, stalked, threatened, robbed, raped, outed, outed again, made fun of, mocked, belittled, lied about, had my reputation attacked multiple times, and I've survived it all. I not only survived, I've excelled, and I've learned lots of fight back skills...I've also learned that duplicitous people never win, and understand the psychology behind the minds of those who try to harm someone for no reason. Sick people do sick things...My strength causes me to want stand up for those who I believe who are being treated as I have been. And I'll do everything in my power to stop any abuse, including using the law, and any other means needed.....I'm tired of bullies, and I'm tired of people being petty and cruel. It's time to fight back!!

.....And wouldn't you know it, "AdamSandler" steps back into the convo, lol....Quote-This site is literally called Canada’s escort RECOMMENDATION board. It’s here for both providers and clients to discuss things and recommend (or not) people’s services. So many people lie on their profile whether it’s age, weight, services, etc. I’m not saying you are lying but you are judging people and getting defensive for people wanting to discuss and find out some info on a discussion forum...

Well Adam, it's also a board that has a motto that says "if you have nothing nice to say say nothing at all". That pretty much sums up that they don't want negative comments. So your "or not" comment is void. You goofs have to get it into your thick skulls that because we advertise, because we are on the web, doesn't then give you the right to use our information as your talking points on the boards you use as your entertainment, and not as they're intended....Imagine griping about those of us with no review policies(which he has done in previous posts). You clearly and foolishly believe that you have a right to review someone simply because you want to...nothing like demonstrating an obvious disdain for escorts having the right to consent!! Go whine to your mommy and tell her that you paid to fuck a lady and you want to tell everyone about her and what happened and that the escort asked you not to, but you posted anyhow...what do you suppose your mommy would say! Go whine to your mommy that you spent endless amounts of time posting your crap, and that because someone who is possibly 32, but who may actually be 38 or 40 deserves being bashed and talked about because your little peener couldn't get hard because of those extra 5 years, Mommy how dare she lie to me, mommy, I have to warn all the other guys!! Do some of you not stop and think that just because some goof thinks a woman isn't her posted age, doesn't then mean she isn't that age. Beauty is subjective...intimacy is fluid....what one person says may be night and day to another when it comes to services and beauty. Unfavorable or differing opinions aren't a reason to ruin someone's reputation or a justification to become suspicious......

 You need to get it through your thick skull, it isn't weird that some escorts want privacy, and that privacy extends to not wanting their intimate details published by some idiots who get a hard on by reliving the experience or who have a need to portray just how shallow and petty they are! It is weird however for goofs like you and your fellow petty Pauls to act like cry baby blabber mouths when an escort stands up to your foolishness and calls you out your pettiness. 

....And  of course that idiot SamIsDTF once again responded.....and used his "investigative skills" ( I say with intended snarkiness and sarcasm) and took all the posts in that thread and input them into AI to show everyone......wait for it.....that he is an idiot with nothing better to do, at least that is how I read his last comment and conclusion, lol!! You're a genius Sam, you've proven that you really are an asshole, not that I had any doubt! 

.....Continued here, because I have no other way of messaging Pamela....

Dear Pamela, thank you for your post. It's concise and  far better articulated than my attempt in this blog...But allow me to say this. Anyone who is singled out as unfairly and as egregiously as I felt she was, should be defended and I have no regrets for doing so. Even though it caused me to lose my twitter acc (lingeriemodel50). But clearly we see this differently. Although I have to point out, your post too is defending her....so perhaps we both feel a need to stand up to bullies.... Anyhow, If anything I've written has offended you or Sonia, I apologize. I only meant to help her in someway.