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Clothing/outfit requests,,,,,

05 Oct, 2024

Why I dislike them...

Often times when I post a new picture or pictures, I'll get some clients wanting me to wear the outfit in those pictures. The problem with that is....

When I take pictures it's usually while I'm waiting for a client to visit, or when I'm bored, lol. So that outfit has already been worn, perhaps even a few times. Or was chosen just for fun for a picture pose. Another reason is, sometimes what looks good in photos doesn't always present as lovely in person. I know my body, and what looks best on it. So what I choose to wear for a particular client, is done for that and a myriad of other reasons. I also tend to pick what I am in the mood to wear. It's important for me to feel sexy when we meet, as that energy will also be felt by you, and that isn't something I can pretend. I'm not an escort who can put on an act. I'm authentic and I'm also a pleaser. So if you request something that i'm not in the mood to wear, I'll feel conflicted and awkward as I'll want to fulfill your request, yet if I do, it most likely won't be comfortable, nor will I feel sexy and it's important that we're both comfortable......

  Certain clothes/lingerie, music, lighting, all play into helping me get into the mood for romance, isn't that what you want, more than a particular outfit? I understand that some men have images in their mind of what is sexy, or what they may want to see, but understand, as women, we know what looks best on our bodies and what we need to feel "in the mood". Fantasies are lovely, but sometimes best to remain fantasies..... So to those who like to make clothing requests, please be understanding as to why I may not fulfill them. Thank you.

Some of my most recent pictures....