So I was sent a text and a couple of emails tonight alerting me to a thread on the local trashy review board.....which was clearly written to try and slander me. Coincidentally, I say sarcastically, this thread was written after I had posted on twitter this morning, that Lyla has become the new sp411.....FYI, sp411 has been long known as the trashiest review board out of them all. It is a despised site by most respectful escorts and clients because of its tendencies to encourage drama, slander. and bully behavior. Which is now indicative to the review board, Lyla.....Clearly my twitter post ruffled that little benDovers and his ilks "wittle feewings.", lol......

This benDover didn't name me directly, but he mentioned things such as my hair style, hair color, old initials, the fact that I was banned from that site, and that I have an ad on tryst....in other words, who else could he be speaking about, lol....I've been told that he is also naming me openly when he is privately messaged. I can say some things about him, but they will sound retributive now. Regardless, I will say, last year, a lady had mentioned to me, seeing a client at her incall, and that he was problematic...I asked who it was as it is normal for escorts to share information on problematic clients. When she told me his handle, I told her I was warned about him back in 2018 or so.....what I confided in her I won't repeat publicly, because although I believed the source, and what was said, I have no proof of it, which I reiterated to her.....so for now I'll let it rest at that....

 Anyhow, I'm not going to defend my reputation, as there are still lots of positive comments remaining on that site under my previous names cristycurves and cristylonglegs, back when I allowed reviews, those can speak for themselves. As will my numerous repeat clients. And I won't defend my name as it becomes needlessly repetitive. Because over all these years of me being an escort, every couple of years or  or so some goof will come out of their basement and post their anonymous crap as their try at ruining all the good that has been said about me....It's become an expected result for my being a person who stands up against bullies and abusive behaviors, and someone who's not afraid to speak honestly about my experiences within this industry. Just being happy being an escort wins me enemies, yes being a "happy hooker", lol, makes people upset..... I've taken pictures of many of the positive comments as I was surprised some still remained. Since many of my good reviews were removed by the mods on Lyla when they banned me, and the fact that I have been banned from there is the only truthful thing the idiot mentioned.....and contrary to what they are saying in that thread.... I wasn't banned because of arguments, or breaking rules.....Mods on review boards are escorts and clients, back then, even today. Those who moderate those types of sites have those they favor, befriend, and those they don't favor, nor will befriend....Moderators always take sides and seldom do they side with the truth or those they've no connection to...Many are bullies, many are biased, and many are vindictive, just like the cowards in that thread. If you know me, you know I never have a problem standing up to anyone, or speaking my mind. Doing so is never behavior that wins favor, especially on a site where so many are so competitive and biased....... I will end by saying this....I won't get my back up when someone has a complaint about about me, my service, my looks, or my personality, as long as it's truthful and legitimate. We are all entitled to our opinions, if they are spoken will truthfulness and not with vindictive intent...But when you have to resort to lies to *try* and slander me, then you don't harm me, you only tarnish yourself, and I will always reply to those who lie....BenDover, you sound so pathetically foolish. So blatantly immature. You are just another of that sites bitter goofs who entertains themselves by posting trash comments and you post, by the looks of things, almost every day, that speaks volumes.......You say that it was 15 yrs ago your "funny encounter" happened, and that I was a "lyla regular"...yet I didn't join lyla until mid 2011, my profile/cristycurves and join date are still listed there...you say I've been advertising as 48 for 10 years, where?....my ads either say 50's, or 99, lol....your full quote is here.....

this episode still lives in my head from about 15 yrs ago 

sucked then but now it’s funny 

i had a lyla  regular to my condo in bedford for outcall ,  she has been banned on here for years for having arguments and breaking rules 

maybe you remember her , she still appears on tryst and has been 48 for like 10 years ????

she arrives , short blonde straight hair and dresses like a hot real estate agent , nice 

i hand the envelope and she proceeds to open in and count it bill by bill in front of me , like i’m a crack dealer 

i listen to her opinions for half hour , then it’s business , she hands me her pants and says hang these up and don’t wrinkle them, preferably a wood hanger 

during the act i hear ‘ why are you touching my hair , don’t do that ‘. and. ‘ why are you looking in my eyes ‘ 

i say can i eat you , she says you better be fucking good at it , and it’s an extra 100 or give me a good review ( i never did ????)

the whole thing was so demanding and lacklustre 

if you’re going to PM me for the name , the initials are CC 

humor = tragedy + time ????

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Those who've met me know that I don't speak, nor act like you've claimed, and that all of what you've said, other than my being banned, is a lie, and is as far fetched as you claiming to be a grown man!! Grow up, do better, the bunch of you...Rustbot, cartierwatch76, DelightfulLee, Navy_suit, Robertdion, old and nerdy, Harleyboy64.....you've all found humour in this  supposedly "grown mans"  stupid bullshit story, he claims happened some 15 years ago....and yet he is only posting about it tonight!!....think about that!! You are all just as pathetic as benDover!.....No wonder so many respectful escorts now cringe at the thought of seeing a review board member, especially those such as yourselves. What a joke! Next time you want to contrive some stupid story, have the courage to speak in front of me....

Harleyboy64 your intro on your lyla profile says-quote-
I am a mature male. Hold two undergrad and one graduate degree. I am kind and enjoy kind people.

Seriously!! A mature male? and educated? Kind? Yeah right!

Oldandnerdy-you had just posted that you missed how the site used to be, that it used to be better, yet here you are contributing to this bullshit drama and the type of crap that has made the site into a clown show.... clearly being hypocritical comes naturally to you.

Rustbot-your post speaks for itself....I'm sure that poor girl was unnerved by what she saw in the mirror when seeing you in the shower, thanks for clarifying, lol. Poor girl.

Robertdion-just another coward hiding behind his handle all while he constantly gossips about anyone, and everyone. Clearly using his and his ilks gossip as his only entertainment.

Cartierwatch76, couldn't find much on the site about you, other than you've just joined and by your follower list, I understand why you find this thread funny. Things in the valley must be quite boring.

Delightfullee-I was saddened to find out that you are another escort....I just hope that you don't become the topic of such a thread. For some of these goofs, just refusing to see them will win you the prize of becoming their target to slander.

Navy_suit- you seem to  be one of the few who has some posting decorum and respect for some ladies.Thank you for that. Although again, finding humour in any of this speaks to your character, imho.

Raven1974-another member who *seems* polite, yet as I've already said, the fact that you contribute to this thread, that you find humour in someone debasing my name, tells me that you are like the rest of those cowards, even though you have never said or posted anything rude or crude.

The most pathetic thing about guys like those mentioned is how sneaky and conniving most of them  can be. They'll hide their board handles when booking an escort who wouldn't see them because of their board activity and posts....They don't care about an escorts boundaries, privacy, or even their own self respect. Because they hide behind their review board handles and fake/ app phone numbers because they are entitled little cowardly peons who think they have a right to speak about or see whomever, whenever, no matter what. They are entitled, misogynistic narcissists and they only have the courage to be so emboldened when they are anonymous....To them discretion doesn't exist, respect is a foreign entity, and acting like a man is an accomplishment they just can't seem to ever accomplish. The owners of that site should be embarrassed at just how pathetic they've allowed their site to become and the types of members it attracts.

Update-

So perhaps there is a mod on that board that has some scruples after all, as they've removed benDovers thread. I'm keeping my blog up though as a reminder to anyone who reads it to remember those who participated in the bullshit. Regrettably it was removed before I could get a picture of the comments made towards Ms.Manda, by two other idiots-redmana, and a coco1. Now, many know that myself and Ms.Manda share no love for one another, regardless, I'll always defend another escort who is being unfairly treated or bullied. The comments both of those idiots made to her were immature, stupid, rude, and unnecessary. Her responses to comments made were well said and necessary. This Coco1 idiot accused her of commenting in the thread as her way of advertising, and implied she was doing so because her business has slowed. I'm quite sure she is as busy as she chooses to be. She is attractive, well established, professional, and clearly has some great entrepreneurial skill...... Why some of these goofs think they know anything of what it takes to succeed in our industry, I'll never understand....Paying escorts to service you, then blabbing on some review board day in and day out and sharing your gossip with other like minded idiots doesn't give you any right, or the experience to speak to what it takes to run a successful escort business... For those two idiots to insult someone with such an established reputation only speaks to their blatant disregard to what it takes to achieve anything in this industry, and their obvious misogyny. This Coco1 goof also made a comment in another thread which involved another lovely established lady who was politely and intelligently responding to other comments. But this goof seems to think- Quote- "A provider who is worth seeing and is highly sought after doesn't have the time nor the inclination to be here bickering with people-end quote.....Funny isn't it that these goofs will consider intelligent, polite responses as "bickering" when made by an escort. All while they sit back and spew insults, crude remarks, indiscreet details, and considerate those, "conversations" and sharing "details"!! These idiots spend countless hours posting their crap on the boards but once an established, intelligent woman steps into the "conversation" they accuse them of being petty, argumentative, not busy, or not in demand....The stupidity these mutant male rejects spew publicly should embarrass them all, yet they are so busy trying to be the biggest dick in the crowd they are blind to it all. And wouldn't you know this Bendover was one of the few who liked that idiots comment along with TonyK, and snaper.....That board sure does have a crew of mental mutants who have no shame in publicly displaying just how to be the worst representations of men.....Screen ladies screen!!