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Are they mentally ill?

07 Oct, 2024

What would make a man want to waste the time of an escort? What must be going on his mind to want to create a phony image and make a fake date?  

From time to time I'll be contacted by some random guy who'll put so much time and effort into trying to convince me that he wants to hire me, that that in itself becomes a red flag. The other obvious traits,which I'll leave out, quickly tells me I'm dealing with another obvious timewaster who has no intention of ever meeting.Dealing with these guys always leaves me wondering, why do they go to the trouble?.....They set off all the red flags, always speak a certain way, say some of the same things, and never agree to providing a deposit. They'll agree to providing id and pictures.Yet when they provide their pictures and id, they're often obvious in their doctoring, and when I talk to them via a phone call, I find it amusing that their ways of speaking are so much alike and telling. I wonder if they all follow the same script that someone has written from some time wasters master class, lol. But seriously, what do these idiots get out of doing this petty time wasting? Is it a mental illness that provokes them to call up an escort to pretend to want to meet? Normal people wouldn't play such stupid games, nor would they want to waste their own time in such trivial ways. So if it isn't mental illness, then what is it?If you have an answer for me, I'd love to hear it, message me @[email protected]

There are some escorts who'll just say this type of behavior is expected and just part of the business. I don't agree with that. To me that is the same as saying that if I worked in a bank that I should expect and accept that I may be held up and robbed...and just move on when it happens.

These guys who time waste are calculating, and intentional. They are NOT just guys who've become shy, or backed off of a date for other reasons. When a guy is called a time waster, it is obvious that he intentionally played games just to waste my time or someone else's. We contact them, and give them every opportunity to make up for their time wasting, yet they never respond, because their intention was to waste our time and to be disingenious. So my resolve will now be posting their pictures, and phone numbers. If someone is going to intentionally play games with me, I'm going to let anyone wanting to know who they are, know. So let the sex work saviours come out and spout off about how wrong they think doing this is, all while they post guys names and numbers on different sites themselves.......they can fuck off. What is wrong, is those who  PURPOSELY play games with other people, and yes they are easily identified from any other types of actual clients! I'll never feel bad at making known those who intentionally set out to harm another person, in any way.