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Again with the misinformation about GFE...

14 Jul, 2024

And of course it's on the review board Lyla....https://www.lyla.ch/topic/191359-bonnie-ll/page/2/

1. Please stop perpetuating that the acronym "GFE" defines a menu of sexual services!! It does not. It represents a style of service, namely a style of service that gives the client the assurance that those advertising it will give them an experience that feels real, that makes them feel like they are with a girlfriend, instead of someone they've paid. A GFE escorts ultimate goal is to make the session feel authentic, natural, the client desired, and the whole experience feel nontransactional. The review board Lyla, at one time, (not sure if they still do, even listed this).  But certainly not in this thread!! I was once again disappointed to see that the boards mod never once reiterated this....she simply closed the thread.That board seems to  have a problem with clarity and truths.

It's disheartening to see one of their escorts again spreading misinformation and making unnecessary accusations about other escorts. I also found it interesting that this same escort reposted the list of recoed escorts in that thread without throwing any of them under the bus, when in fact, and I say this without any judgement, that some on that list are known to provide the very services she is protesting against......

I will suggest that anyone so worried about spreading disease, should abstain from having any kind of sex with multiple partners, especially partners whose sexual health is unknown. Just because you use condoms, doesn't guarantee that you'll be protected from an STI. It certainly lessens the risk, but it doesn't eliminate the risk. The only safe sex, is no sex, or sex with a partner that has tested negative for all sti's prior to your intimacy with them. Even then, that is no guarantee. As tests results are only indicative to a certain number of days, and false negatives can happen, and negative test results can be given all while still having another STI. Unless you test yourself, and your partner each time you have sex, there is a possibility of contracting something and transmitting it. All in all, we must use common sense, and yes using protection is better than no protection. But as adults we all do what we are comfortable with. And as escorts, the last thing we should be doing is judging one another.......Do what you are comfortable with, and allow others the same respect and PLEASE stop perpetuating the misnomer that GFE defines a menu of certain sexual services!! Thank you!

I'll also add, that a professional, reputable escort, doesn't need reviews, or an ad that lists them as being "verified" to be considered real, professional, or reputable. Return clients are any escorts assurance that they're doing what's needed. Our ads, social media, and personal websites are enough for anyone to evaluate our professionalism and validity. If there are people who feel those things aren't enough and therefore need another persons opinion, or some websites check mark( verification), well, that's their problem, lol......Even those with limited intelligence can distingusish the professional and real, from the unprofessional and scammers.