As someone who has been in and out of this industry, in all it's aspects, over the span of decades. I believe I have the experience and knowledge to speak about it. When I speak about it, I do so honestly, and because of the things I have experienced, and am experiencing. My work within this industry has included working for angencies (locally only), running my own outcall services (locally only), being an independent escort, becoming an online escort (meaning learning how to advertise online, learning review board culture, & the transition from outcall only to incall & outcall), dancing ( for private parties, I've never danced in clubs). It has been a journey, to say the least. Over those decades I've left this industry many times and for years to work in other fields, but escorting has always drawn me back. It's an industry that has caused me much turmoil, and shown me just how horrible some people can be. It's also brought me much enjoyment, taught me how to value myself, it's helped grow my confidence, taught me how to handle difficult people and other pertinent people skills, it's improved other skiills I learned in an other professions, namely, massage, and has increased my patience for many things. Because of it, I've learned buisness management skills, website building, picture taking skills, editing skills, phone decorum, and many other skills.Many of which schooling could never teach. It's an industry that I believe I'm well suited for, and which I thoroughly enjoy. Many of my clients are amazing, intelligent, kind souls, who are not only wonderful lovers, but who've also shown me the good side of mankind. I'm so very thankful to all of them....even the bad ones, as they've also taught me a lot!

This industry certainly has it's perks. Being independent, being able to work within the hours I choose, see who I want and when I want, is a blessing and freeing....This is the only business that has afforded me those things.....As I've said, it's also taught me a lot about people....money, and just how low some will go to gain it and noteriety. People in this business have taught me to watch and listen, and listen more. As many of them say one thing and do another. That reviews mean little.They should NEVER be a guide to discern a persons character. As the two seldom coincide. There are many well reviewed ladies who stoop to levels that still surprise me....The cattiness of many of them is unbounded....An example...A few years ago I had met a local lady...when I felt comfortable allowing her to come to my rental I had back then, which was a 3 unit building and was up for sale, upon entering, that lady said "oh your building is for sale, I'm going to buy it"....then we when sat down, she looked at me and asked "are you menopausal"......Wasn't she friendly!! When I think of it now, I find it funny, because I know her more....cattiness and thinking she is overly capable, is part of her schtick. I've also connected and have met a couple of ladies who'd give you the shirt off their back, without expectations. But I assure you, they are a minority. Escorting is a hard buisness to navigate. It can play with your sense of self. Many clients are toxic, even more so than some of the escorts....You really have to have an understanding of humanity, psychology, and patience with one's self to thrive within it. All in all, I believe the rewards I've reaped have outweighed the downfalls I have faced.

It's an industry I'll always fight to normalize, meaning advocating for it, as it being a valid profession. I'll also always stand up against anyone who is a bully, who is a liar, and those like that redhead, who travels around Canada, living out of a suitcase and her little black minion, who pops in and out of this buisness to brag about her "high education", she's apparently been gaining, since I first met her back in the l ate 90's, early 2000's .......who have "tried" to take me down. Btw, does it take 20 + years to gain a masters, or a PHD    .....I'm proud of my journey, I'm proud of my resilience, and I'm grateful to many I've met because of, and only because of this profession. I hope that the stigmatization of our industry will become a thing of the past, and that being open about being an escort will no longer bring social, economic, or personal penalizations to those choosing this profession. I hope those days come soon....