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Go to your doctor....

05 Oct, 2024

I don't know why review boards think they are the place to promote and quote sti's facts and fictions ( btw the acronym STD in no longer used by health pros because symptoms aren't always noticed and sexually transmitted infections don't always turn into sexually transmitted diseases(std"s)) I can only assume since their members are those who involve themselves with different partners and different sexual activities, they then believe themselves to have the experience to become armchair doctors.

In my time on the local board GFE was the thing, and Gfe by all those who posted on that board, had to include a BBBJ, French kissing, and MSOG....at the minimum. I was often told I couldn't and shouldn't be advertising as a GFE as I didn't offer BBBJ. They would often post threads about BBBJ's being safe, that you couldn't contract specific sti's if you gave or received one....basically if you made any posts that were anything but pro BBBJ you'd be shamed out of the thread. Today it seems escorts are on the opposite end of that conversation now. Now they promote covered Bj's only. Yet many are still allowing uncovered oral on themselves....To much misinformation is still being perpetuated.

I believe anyone seeking advice about what can be contracted and what can't and why, should only be seeking it from your family doctor, or a doctor at a sexual health clinic, not the internet, nor an escort review board. It is only health professionals who should give advice as we're all in unique situations with differing health conditions/situations. Example... Some people need to get tested yearly, others more often. Some can be more susceptible to contracting something because of medications or they take, or because of health issues they already have, etc. Again, only a doctor should/can confirm this. Only a doctor's or another health professionals advice should be heeded when wanting facts about sti's and YOUR health situation. The only common knowledge that can be promoted and supported without a medical consult is that if you are celibate you'll remain safe from contracting a sti.

So if you are involving yourself with a new, and or multiple partners, seek out a health professional to discuss how often you should be tested and to have any sexual health related questions answered. Be safe and enjoy.....